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		<title>Oceans of Opportunities- The New Way to Work</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 01:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leanne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are millions like me who have been able to make sense of their own lives when the big corporate waters around them were choppy and tumultuous. We now gladly captain our own unique and individual ships. It’s a course of uncharted freedom, and exciting destinations. 
This is a trade wind worth following. 
What is this “New Way to Work”? It’s a means to thrive even in the midst of an economic storm. The newest way to work matches skills and talent with global employers as no other career movement has before. I'm thrilled to be riding the crest of the workforce of the future.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Authors Note</strong>: <em>Often people ask me what I do for a living. When I tell them “freelance writing” I get bombarded with questions- “What is it?” “How do you do it?” “Do you get paid?”  In this world of challenging economics and gloomy employment statistics vast numbers of qualified professionals are moving away from traditional workplaces and meeting the needs globally of a workforce re-defined.  This is my  personal accounting of what is termed, “The New Way to Work”.</em></p>
<p> <span style="color: #008000;"><strong>Oceans of <img class="size-medium wp-image-433 alignright" title="sunset in south haven" src="http://www.mrsbankrupt.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/sunset-in-south-haven-300x225.jpg" alt="sunset in south haven" width="300" height="225" />Opportunities</strong></span></p>
<p>To some the economy appears dismal. Others have found a new way to work and are reinventing themselves and the job market itself- one person at a time. I’m one of those supremely fortunate people, who clutched a life raft called “freelance” and sailed to shore.</p>
<p>I’m not alone.</p>
<p>There are millions like me who have been able to make sense of their own lives when the big corporate waters around them were choppy and tumultuous. We now gladly captain our own unique and individual ships. This is a course of uncharted freedom and exciting destinations.</p>
<p>It’s a trade wind worth following.</p>
<p>What is this “New Way to Work”? It’s a means to thrive even in the midst of an economic storm. The new way to work matches skills and talent with global employers as no other career movement has before. I’m thrilled to be riding the crest of the workforce wave of the future.</p>
<p>Freelancing now spans the globe, linking client to highly qualified service providers worldwide with cutting edge technology. Gone are the mental images of bathrobe clad folks bleary in front of their computers. These contract professionals are the trendsetters and talented who know the marketplace is global, not corporate.</p>
<blockquote><p>This wasn’t my port of call initially. The ship I’d been a passenger on, The USS Traditional Career, simply sank slowly to its demise into a sea of economically murky waters. I was left, clinging at age 44 to a small floating shred of dignity, the wreckage of my former job and five children to support.</p>
<p>As a stage III cancer survivor and single parent, I’d spent years building a successful career with few resources or finances. The thought of transitioning again, with children in tow, struck a genuine chord of fear in me.</p>
<p>My field of expertise is industrial safety and hygiene, which is a highly skilled but niche market.  I had years of compliance and safety as a national trainer, technical writer and developer of government required programs. Certainly there were clients who would value my education and background- I just had to find them. This meant I had to move from small traditional career inlets and into the wider open seas of opportunity.</p>
<p>In a search one night, I discovered several intriguing sites that changed my course and my thinking. Among them, Elance, who brought the ability to reach the broadest network of employers and offered me ready assistance.</p>
<p>Within a few weeks I linked to clients across the country. I sold my first articles to publishers I’d never have reached years ago without the technology of this new way of working. Later, I began developing programs, consulting and working for clients internationally in web content, blogging and marketing their products, ideas or sites.</p>
<p>Along the way, I continually find global colleagues that inspire, encourage and assist me in my new career and clients worldwide I consider friends and co-partners in enhancing their business.</p>
<p>Like many others, I’ve brought my own life to a calm place in the midst of this economic hurricane and pursued my dreams. Forget the stigma of “starving writer”- that too has been revolutionized by this newest way of spanning career horizons.</p>
<p>We, who freelance-whether writer, graphic artist or any number of qualified professionals-are not choosing a second best career option. We’ve started a revolution and we’re reclaiming our lives with each satisfied client, project and paycheck.</p></blockquote>
<p>If mainstream career waters aren’t taking you where you want to travel, maybe it’s time to trim the sails and head into the winds of change- the new way to work in a worldwide ocean of opportunities.</p>
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		<title>Why the economy needs Ellen DeGeneres.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Sep 2009 15:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>leanne</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hurray! Paula’s out, Ellen’s in!
I’m thrilled that Ellen DeGeneres has been picked as a new judge on American Idol’s upcoming season. Frankly, Paula reminds me of the former gluttonous economy and I’m sick of looking at her. I’ll pause here for a moment, (while you get the Kleenex out), long enough to state I like [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hurray! Paula’s out, Ellen’s in!</p>
<p>I’m thrilled that Ellen DeGeneres has been picked as a new judge on <em>American Idol’s</em> upcoming season. Frankly, Paula reminds me of the former gluttonous economy and I’m sick of looking at her. I’ll pause here for a moment, (while you get the Kleenex out), long enough to state I like Paula’s personality, in her own overly emotional, overly done, manner.</p>
<p>But I’m weary of anything “over the top”.</p>
<p>I just want normal, down to earth and simple. The move to put Ms. DeGeneres in the judging seat, to me is a way of reclaiming those virtues. Ellen’s street smart, but not a cynic. She enjoys basic pleasures of life, (like dancing in her tennis shoes). I think she can grapple any issue, (even Simon) with intellect, not emotion.</p>
<p>Again, personally, this just symbolizes a move toward those down to earth virtues. What got us in fiscal trouble as a nation were in many cases those emotional purchases and the overly done lifestyles many have been living. Did we have to remodel (again)? Did we really need the payment on a gas hogging brand new SUV?  </p>
<p>When I think of Paula, on Idol, I feel like a child who, having unwrapped the brightly packaged gifts, is weary of the process. We’ve collectively played briefly with the elaborate, expensive toys, and now we’re moving on to simple pleasures again. My own kids have celebrated playing with cardboard boxes more than the lavish toys we’ve piled on them in the past.</p>
<p>In this economy Ellen is easier on the eyes. I don’t want to see “over the top” for a while. It makes me queasy, like a flashback to my checkbook register, in days before I learned to get a grip on mass purchases.</p>
<p>And to get us out of this fiscal mess, it’s gonna take intelligence, not emotion. All these issues we face as a nation need to be looked at armed with statistics, not opinions borne of hearsay and feelings. It takes grit to pick up the rubble and move forward, not Kleenex and crying fits. Ellen? Well, she fits the bill for what we all need, not just on Idol, but in real life- a little grit, some raw intelligence and loving the simple joys of life, once again. Save the Kleenex, we&#8217;re done crying. Now it&#8217;s time to move forward.</p>
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		<title>Being cheap is not thrifty</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 00:50:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For a writer, it’s exciting to see your name and your blog on a nationally syndicated, prize winning news site. This week, (August 03, 2009), Mrs. Bankrupt was featured on MSN’s Smart Money Blog, “No health insurance? No good,” regarding my three part series on health care reform, (“Sick? No insurance. No doctor. You’re screwed”). [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>For a writer, it’s exciting to see your name and your blog on a nationally syndicated, prize winning news site. This week, (August 03, 2009), Mrs. Bankrupt was featured on MSN’s Smart Money Blog, <a href="http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/archive/2009/08/03/no-health-insurance-not-good.aspx">“No health insurance? No good,”</a> regarding my three part series on health care reform, (“Sick? No insurance. No doctor. You’re screwed”). This is a financial site. And given how we oft talk about smart spending, I’d like to overlap a few issues. When counting pennies, sometimes we debt encumbered struggle with making the choice to donate to a charity. If you don’t have a lot of resources, you want use them wisely, right?</strong></p>
<p>There’s another MSN Smart Money Blog I’d like to share with you today. It was pointed out to me by a reader. I, in turn, would like to share it with you.</p>
<p>Jim Wang, from blog site, “Bargaineering”, guest posted on MSN’s Smart Money Blog, June 17, 2009, his inflammatory blog, “Devil’s advocate: Don’t donate money to charity.” He then proceeds to list four reasons why it’s fiscally unwise to give additional “hard earned tax dollars” to these organizations when your tax dollars are already sneaking in the back door through subsidies.</p>
<p>Also with all respect to Mr. Wang, is his belief that these charities do not “teach a man to fish”, but instead cause the lazy to suck money out of the system by lingering in homeless shelters and soup kitchens. He suggests one alternative is to withhold money, thus forcing the homeless to find another option, (like work). (Why do I feel like I am in a Dickens novel when I look at those words?)</p>
<p>Two other reasons not to donate to a charity, according to Jim Wang are high administrative costs and the ease with which people give money versus physical help. Jim states, “Money is too easy.” Rather, he asserts, charitable organizations would rather have our time and effort, in lieu of money. ( I am sure he’s polled the charities of his choice for this answer).</p>
<p>I have a fair amount of respect for charitable organizations, having been helped by their generosity in the not so distant past, having been a volunteer myself, a financial donor, and also for producing several charitable activist children.</p>
<p>Here is my Angels Answer response to the Devil’s Advocate.</p>
<p><strong>Angels Answer: Why donating to a charity makes sense even in a tight economy:</strong></p>
<p><strong>Subsidies from the federal government are not enough to fund all costs.</strong> Please see the recent Johns Hopkins University study, of over 360 not for profits, released June 29, 2009. “Contributing to this stress has been a perfect storm of impacts including declining revenues (51 percent of organizations); increased costs, particularly for health benefits; declining endowments; and decreased cash flow as a result of restricted credit and government payment delays”.  The full study is attached via link below. Basically, expenses are up, donations are down, and the numbers needing assistance are skyrocketing, beyond federal budget subsidies. These organizations can make it, but they do need our assistance bridging the gap.</p>
<p><strong> Teach a man to fish?</strong> Many not for profits and charitable organizations do just that by employing those they assist. The South Bend, Indiana, Homeless Shelter is a model for this, by having a step by step model for individuals to work or educate themselves out of the program. Also, most Salvation Armies, Unemployment offices, domestic violence centers, and other not for profits do employ their clients. Give a man to fish, does not mean throwing him to the wolves while clutching his fish. It means assisting him or her over a period of time, which these organizations need money to do. If we feed the homeless in soup kitchens, but never teach them life skills, we are shorting humanity itself. And teaching job skills IS what many of these organizations are doing.</p>
<p> <strong>Administrative costs are necessary</strong>. How many pastors could preach and feed their families without a salary? Would you like to run a crisis pregnancy center or a homeless shelter with no pay?  It’s my guess that these salaries are for the most part, significantly low already, without a fiscal ax being implemented by the public. These are to a degree businesses. They are in the business of helping others. As such, they do have operating costs, like it or not.</p>
<p> <strong>Helping hands don&#8217;t take care of  all expenses.</strong> Mr. Wang asserts that helping is more needed by these organizations than dollars. “Money is too easy.” I attest charities need both. My local Boys and Girls Club purchases over a thousand book bags, complete with supplies at school time. By purchasing in bulk, the BGC makes the donation money stretch further. These organizations need both cash and helping hands. Frankly most organizations these days probably need mass quantities of each.</p>
<p> <strong>Give how you can, folks. Whether it’s your time or your money, but realize the impact you have in generosity. There are many times I embrace the inner tightwad. Donations to charities are not included in that thought process. Sorry Mr. Wang. I&#8217;ll back you on bargaining and being thrifty, but not in this &#8220;revisitation of Scrooge&#8221; venture. </strong></p>
<p>You can read the Devils Advocate by following this link:</p>
<p> <a href="http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/archive/2009/06/17/devil-s-advocate-don-t-donate-money-to-charity.aspx">http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/archive/2009/06/17/devil-s-advocate-don-t-donate-money-to-charity.aspx</a></p>
<h1>&#8220;Perfect Storm&#8221; of Fiscal Stress Hits Nonprofits</h1>
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<p>Johns Hopkins University</p>
<p><em>June 29, 2009</em></p>
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<p> <a href="http://www.charitynavigator.org/index.cfm?bay=content.view&amp;cpid=922">http://www.charitynavigator.org/index.cfm?bay=content.view&amp;cpid=922</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is part two in a series I am doing this week on health care reform, from a personal viewpoint. Given the fact that I&#8217;ve lost a home, ruined my credit and spent ten years being turned away from mainstream medical care, due to not having health insurance, I have some input to lend here.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>This is part two in a series I am doing this week on health care reform, from a personal viewpoint. Given the fact that I&#8217;ve lost a home, ruined my credit and spent ten years being turned away from mainstream medical care, due to not having health insurance, I have some input to lend here.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Let me recap my story briefly</strong>:  A decade ago, I had a stage 3 cancer. Our business failed. The health insurance was not able to be maintained.  I got divorced shortly after my cancer went into remission, leaving me with<strong> hundreds of thousands of dollars</strong> of business debt, medical bills and five small children, zero insurance, and no job. (Read yesterday&#8217;s story or the tab here, &#8220;Who is Mrs. Bankrupt Anyway&#8221; for the ugly details). I cleaned offices at night to go to college and take care of my kids because it paid well, and I didn&#8217;t have to pay childcare. But I also was unable to get any sort of Medicaid, nor was I able to afford insurance with premiums in excess of $700.00 a month. </p>
<p><strong>In that short paragraph, I&#8217;ve just summarized countless tears, chronic depression and pain, folks.</strong></p>
<p><strong> Try telling your kids how glad you are to be cancer free and in nearly the same breath, add,  &#8221;We&#8217;re losing our house, children.&#8221;  It&#8217;s rather difficult to be as cheerful as you&#8217;d like.</strong> </p>
<p>With 144 creditors, and in excess of 350K  (nearly all of them medical bill related), it was only a matter of time before my 70K home was attached with liens. I struggled to pay anything. I was constantly getting hauled into court for judgements. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been told a thousand times by people, &#8220;As long as you pay $10.oo a month, no creditor can do anything to you&#8221;.  (  A giant LOL to that!)</p>
<p><strong>Wrong. Wake up and smell the health care coffee, people.</strong> </p>
<p> Since most hospitals are not privately owned, they are <strong>not</strong>  likely to cut you a deal.</p>
<p> <strong>Generally hospitals require you to pay off balances in full within a year, or the account is turned over to collections. Collections in turn adds a fee, charges interest, and typically files judgements and requires you to appear in court every few months, even if you can&#8217;t pay anything at all. I am convinced if they saved all that attorney money, it would cut all our medical bills in half.</strong></p>
<p>It&#8217;s rather humilating to stand before the judge, month after month, and relate that you are working, but too poor too pay anything more because you had too many creditors to divide up your income by.</p>
<p>At even $10 per creditor a month, given the number of creditors, I was looking at  payments of $1,440.00 to medical bills alone, plus other expenses related to raising five kids, housing, etc. (And incidentally that was more than I was earning a few months).</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s it like to be uninsured for a decade and have chronic health issues? Can a doctor refuse to treat you? Aren&#8217;t there places to obtain medical care?</strong></p>
<p>Being uninsured for a healthy person is, I am sure, difficult. Being uninsured for a person who needs 10K a year in scans, blood work, thyroid medicine, and has a low immune system is beyond difficult.</p>
<p><strong>Those who have health insurance, if they need medication simply see the doctor, obtain script, fill script.  </strong></p>
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<li><strong>Average cost, to see physician, with insurance- $30.00</strong></li>
<li><strong>Average cost medication with insurance, $20.00</strong></li>
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<p><strong>Those without health insurance, here&#8217;s what it looks like: </strong></p>
<p><strong>Step one: Find a doctor who will treat you with no insurance. Call 15 offices. If you owe any of the hospitals attached to the doctors office, you must pay a payment to the hospital and pay physician in full. (If they will see you). </strong></p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Average cost of primary care physician w/o insurance- $ 125.00 Specialist average cost- $200 and up.</strong></li>
<li><strong>Average minimum cost of payment to hospital before seeing physician- $50.00- $100.00 </strong></li>
<li><strong>Average cost of prescription w/0 insurance- $20-50.00 or higher</strong></li>
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<p>This of course, is IF a doctor will see you without insurance. Suddenly, doctors advertising  for new patients in newspapers are, &#8220;no longer taking patients&#8221; when I&#8217;ve called.  That happened to me three times.  </p>
<p>Another time, an oncologist who saw me only after being begged by a friend, gave me a whole five minutes of his time. He told me to go home and wait with a lump on my neck for six months and then he would, &#8220;See if we needed tests.&#8221;</p>
<p>If you look at the American Cancer Societies guidelines, (especially for a two time cancer patient), they suggest any suspicious lump be biopsied after a few weeks. </p>
<p><strong>And several physicians ask that you &#8220;pre-pay&#8221; before they even see you, and with cash. (As if they assume low-life humans with medical bills also must bounce checks, too).</strong></p>
<p>Try tossing in eye exams, contacts or glasses. (Add a few extra hundred bucks a year).</p>
<p>Heaven help you if you need to visit, (gasp), a DENTIST. There you can hope to get away with $500.00 by the time they do x-rays, cleaning, visit.  If you need more than that, odd&#8217;s are you can&#8217;t afford it. Break a tooth? Have a cavity? Better pray you win the lottery, cause you will add at least several hundred dollars, if not thousands.</p>
<p><strong>I&#8217;ve been to the dentist twice in ten years. And I wear 30 day contacts for four &#8211; six months these days to delay out the costs. I take left over anti-biotics from friends, or ones that my kids are allergic to. Once I took anti-biotics a vet gave my dog. I am serious.</strong></p>
<p><strong>This lack of health care and debt becomes a self propogating cycle, too.</strong></p>
<p>I have had to resort to going to the ER, (which only incurred yet more costs) but could not afford the cash out of my pocket, when I had pnemonia to see a primary care physician. That particular visit, I needed an X-ray, anti-biotics, and an exam. I had a 103 temp and couldn&#8217;t breathe. The only physician who could have seen me, would have charged $125.00 for a visit and an extra $125.00 for a chest x-ray.  Anti-biotics would have added an extra $75.00.</p>
<p><strong>Some how I didn&#8217;t remember to have an extra $325.00 laying around when I got ill that day with pnemonia.</strong></p>
<p>Lately, I am really thrilled to have found a doctor who thumbs his nose at conventional health care pricing and actually sees me at a much reduced price. I am thinking of calling the Catholic church to have him cannonized. If there is anyone we should contemplate cloning it might be him. But it took me seven years to find this doc. And it doesn&#8217;t solve the issue of tests, scans, medication or anything really exciting like mammograms. I&#8217;d kiss the ground of a dentist who&#8217;d see me for cheap too.</p>
<p>Tomorrow, I&#8217;d like to talk about what happens from this point to credit, after the fall of medicial bills has hit and you are deep in the winter of debt. I&#8217;d like to to give you the side of  what not having health care has cost this mom of five, and what it costs society. There&#8217;s another side to this picture of health care. That will be my final part of the Health Care saga. You&#8217;ll either be thrilled or enlightened or enraged, I am sure, when I&#8217;m done.</p>
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		<title>Hello College! Goodbye Cash! The Hidden Costs of Sending a Kid to College.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Jun 2009 02:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What? School just got out. Why am I broaching this topic now?  For those who watch their budgets, sending a child off to college can wreck unexpected havoc on your fiscal flow chart. If you haven’t considered the many “unmentionables” that college life costs us parental units, it’s high time to start planning AND saving. 

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What? School just got out. Why am I broaching this topic now?  For those who watch their budgets, sending a child off to college can wreck unexpected havoc on your fiscal flow chart. If you haven’t considered the many “unmentionables” that <a href="http://www.payforcollegeblog.com/">college</a> life costs us parental units, it’s high time to start planning AND saving. </p>
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<p>August looms a mere eight weeks away, bringing with it the giant sucking sound of your cash being drained away as your child leaves for college. Maybe you have a high school student with college aspirations and want to start saving. How much do you budget? A touch of preparation saves a ton of dough and much Zanax, folks- trust this mother of five.  What are these costs?</p>
<p>Almost all <a href="http://freddiebeasley.wordpress.com/category/financial-cost/">parents </a>with college bound kiddos can quote tuition fees, (around 15K annual room and board &amp; tuition for state schools). I, too, knew these statistics, but breathed a heavy sigh of relief when there were ample grants, scholarships, and student loans to get my child’s foot in the door of the University of her choice. Whew! That fiscal hurdle was crossed.  I thought. I mean, the tuition covers room and board, how much more could they need, <em>right</em>?</p>
<p>That was about six years ago. I am far smarter these days, having three children with college experiences.</p>
<p><strong>For starters, let’s talk getting them there</strong>. Pre-college there are SAT’s, which many students take two or more times and keep their best score.  You can plan on spending about $30-$50.00 each for these.</p>
<p><strong>Application Fees</strong>: Applying for colleges takes in many cases, non-refundable application costs, which can range from $25-$200.00 or more, depending on the school.  Most kids apply for four or more schools.</p>
<p> Then the “Letter of Acceptance “comes. This is the day you celebrate with joy, (and you should, because it is quickly followed by several other letters asking for fees, one upon the other). </p>
<p><strong>Yet More Fees</strong>: There will most likely be a student fee and a housing fee. Countless letters will ask for cash in a myriad of ways, some required, some merely sales pitches. There will be an orientation, which is typically mandatory for freshmen and usually comes with a price.  And F.Y.I, even if your son or daughter are on a full grant or scholarship, these upfront fees may not apply to the “free ride” and most often are still out of pocket.</p>
<p><strong>Crazy Mandatory Fees</strong>: This week, I took child number three to Ball State University for her mandatory orientation. After coughing up something like $225.00 already to BSU for above costs, I become very crabby over additional fees. I know that an education is worth every penny, I just hate parting with yet more of my money.  It’s primeval in me, I know. I become ugly.</p>
<p>At this recent event, the required cost of eating there was around fifty bucks for a day and a half (two lunches, one dinner, and a breakfast). Granted it was for my daughter and I, but still this is for a family of people who eat a yogurt and a granola bar for breakfast and consume ramen noodles as a staple food group. We’re cheap.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Me</strong>: What if I don’t eat that much? Do I get a rebate?</p>
<p><strong>Orientation Leader</strong>:  You will find that money will go quickly, given the cost of our food.</p>
<p><strong>Me</strong>: If it’s expensive, I would be happy to look at ways to reduce your budget, I do that for a living.</p>
<p><strong>Orientation Leader</strong>:  Umm.</p>
<p><strong>Me</strong>: Hey, I am on a restricted diet.</p>
<p><strong>Orientation Leader</strong>: We have a variety of ways to suit your diet. What are your restrictions?</p>
<p><strong>Me</strong>: My daughter and I only eat things that cost a dollar, it’s genetic.</p>
<p><strong>Orientation Leader</strong>: That will be $50.00. We take cash, check or credit card.</p></blockquote>
<p>If you stay with your kiddo at these orientation gatherings, you will most likely be <strong>charged</strong> a fee to sleep in an un-air conditioned dorm, where you will make your own bed and sleep on a rubber mattress coated with the DNA of countless college students.  This is not to mention the cost of road trips to drive there.  (Nor the parking costs often charged to park while paying for the orientation experience).</p>
<p>Then there are lab fees, student parking passes, etc.  Health exams, vaccinations, sports fees. You are also “encouraged” to visit the bookstore, where fifty dollar sweat shirts beg to be purchased.</p>
<p>What I suggest to counter these unexpected fiscal gems is to be aware in advance and to start saving if you have a high school student. I anticipate spending from high school senior year to college entry around $500.00, for SAT’s, applying to colleges and required entry fees.</p>
<p>Then I plan on another $200.00-$300.00 for added costs, such as orientations, fuel to get there, student ID’s, parking passes for students, and up front lab fees.</p>
<p>Also, a rule of thumb regarding books and financial aid- typically financial aid is not released to the school until a few weeks after the semester starts, so plan on having cash to buy books <strong>each</strong> semester. This is around $300.00- $500.00. I have never lucked out paying less, given a combined eight years of college for my kids thus far.</p>
<p>If you know there are a couple of colleges your kiddo is aiming toward, try contacting the schools and ask for these costs. Or search websites for info.  Bottom line:my budget just to get the critters off to college- $1,300.00 (without dorm expense).  You may adjust yours as needed.</p>
<p>Got a college student? I would love to have your input on budgeting!</p>
<p>Next blog stop on the money train, “<strong>Dorm-land</strong>”.</p>
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